you + me = US

Happy Birthday Ben!!!

2011-12-29T22:14:00.004-07:00

Feliz Cumpleanos Benjamin! His 12th birthday! I can't believe it.

Time to shave?

Like daughter, like mother.
In honor of Ben, we had the Nyan Cat playing for 10 hours. Thank you YouTube. Really. Also, thank you "mute button." I don't think I fully appreciated you til today.

The most amazing cake ever.

Alfa, Walkyria, Sadie and Shazer came to visit.

We love you, Ben.

La Luz

2011-12-29T21:40:00.007-07:00

Christmas Day 2011

2011-12-29T21:17:00.008-07:00

It was a very merry Christmas! We spent the morning at Mom and Dad's and the rest of the time @ home. If you're wondering why there are so many pictures of Mia, it's because the boys were with their other parents. Fortunately we were able to have them home for a good part of the day. The best part of the day, really. It was wonderful, even if the turkey wasn't so much. You'll notice a picture of Mia surrounded by presents and all she really cared about was her orange. Finally someone who appreciates the orange ;) Also, see if you can identify Alfonso's tribute to U.H.F.

Noche Buena Con La Familia Flores

2011-12-29T21:07:00.006-07:00

Dinner, karaoke, and excellent company. This was really a fun night.

Mamma Mia! She's One!

2011-12-21T16:28:00.010-07:00

Our little lady turned one yesterday. I wanted to be ambitious and do a fancy schmancy party but I quickly realized I was out of my league. Instead, we had an italian themed birthday party. Mia Isabella is kind of an italianish name. We served spaghetti and meatballs, and pizza. There were floating candles and flowers on the table and I dressed up like an italian cuoco (chef). It was really fun. I can't believe she's one! Thanks for making our lives so much richer. We love you, Mia. Buon Apetito!

and yes, that's a real mustache.

A Very Big Day

2011-12-11T09:49:00.007-07:00

Yesterday was a big day. First off, it was my brother Nick's birthday (HAPPY BIRTHDAY NICK!) We started out with walking lessons with Mia. Then Alfonso and one of our awesome neighbors be-decked the house with lights. Ben was with his Mom. We always miss him when he's gone. Spence and Will helped with the lights a little but then spent the majority of the time reading on the roof. I love that they love to read, and they loved having permission to do so on the roof.
After the lights were in place and the place looked fantastic, we piled in the car and drove to Grandma Jo's to make a gingerbread train. We had so much fun. The final and greatest highlight of the day was Nick's birthday party. Carrie did an awsome job. She and my brother-in-law, Rob prepared some fine Japanese cuisine. It was divine. A big surprise that night, MIA STARTED WALKING!!! We were all sitting around watching National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation, when she decided to walk from the couch to the coffee table. I freaked out. Alfonso freaked out. It seemed like everybody freaked out. It was so exciting.

The Tree

2011-12-05T12:07:00.006-07:00

Ben's Goal and Alfonso's Birthday

2011-11-27T23:00:00.010-07:00

Ben's interest in reading has really taken off lately. It's been really exciting to watch him evolve into an avid reader. In August, Ben set a goal to read the first three Harry Potter books before the school year ends in 2012. Now, I don't know if it's because of the requirement at school to read 20 minutes a day, or if it's because our t.v. broke, or if he just thinks Harry Potter is really cool but, he's already read book one and two and yesterday, he finished book three!!! This is such a huge accomplishment for Ben. I am EXTREMELY proud of him! The moment he finished book three, he started book four. That's dedication :) Other book series' that aren't collecting any dust at our house: Fablehaven, Eragon, and Diary of a Wimpy Kid and any books by Roald Dahl.
Also the other day we celebrated Alfonso's birthday. Here he is pictured with the kiddos and his Star Wars cupcakes. What a good sport ;) Happy Birthday Alfonso!!! We are so lucky to have you in our lives!!!

First Snow's Snowman & Photos of Floortime

2011-11-08T15:23:00.005-07:00

It snowed here on Sunday morning. The kids were excited to put on their snowgear and shovel the walks. This they did followed by a snowball fight with the new neighbors AND bringing a snowman to life. The snowman only took up all the snow in the backyard and the frontyard. Impressive. Spencer, who rolled the base piece wanted to make sure that everyone knows that Ben did not help. :)
Mia has been very mobile lately. Today I plunked down on the floor with her and took these.

Trick, Trunk, or Treat

2011-11-01T09:02:00.007-06:00

Happy HALLOWEEN

2011-10-31T08:34:00.009-06:00

On Saturday, my mom threw her annual pumpkin-carving, costume-sporting party. We didn't get pictures of everyone's costumes due to extenuating circumstances. Everyone had a GREAT time!!! Sadly, Miss Mia & I sat it out because she has the flu, and Ben was away with his Mom. But we'll be there next year! Thanks Mom.

They had a scavenger hunt to find all the pieces of a witches missing hat. After finding all the scattered clues(hidden from the shed in the backyard to the Stone's stone) they were able to assemble the pieces, decipher the code, and find the treat.

Will and Spence carved these pumpkins! Will's is the Grim Reaper and Spence's is the haunted house. I'm impressed!!

Breakfast this morning :)

Happy Halloween!

Witches Night Out 2011

2011-10-16T23:21:00.002-06:00

They say a picture's worth a thousand words. Among other things, this picture says, I had a brilliant good time Saturday night.

New Queen Witch

2011-09-13T09:19:00.008-06:00

Last night we packed up the kids and drove to Garnder Village for their, "So You Think You're A Witch" contest. It was fun to see some old friends and see the new talent. After each performance, from the back row, we held up score cards that said, "Scary, Hideous, 10, and -1" Alfonso has a toothache so one of his cards said, "My tooth hurts." And Ben had one that said, "Where's the bathroom?" We had a laugh or two. Here's some pictures from the evening.

With the winner, Carmen Mirandwitch and her ogre. Love the pumpkins.

Lucinda, Miss Utah and Carmen

Ben and Miss Utah (one of the judges)

With one of my personal favorites, Disco Diane. Her wand was an old school microphone.

Here's "Cure"ella who is devoted to fighting breast cancer. She was great!

2009 Royalty. Do you recognize Mildew Rose???

Back 2 School

2011-09-12T14:23:00.005-06:00

The kids started school! Here they are waiting for their first bus ride.

After school I figured they needed a treat. Dairy Keen, here we come!!!

Mowsquatto Bitties

2011-08-01T11:28:00.011-06:00

Apples to apples is one of my favorite games. My kids love it too. However because my 6 year old, Will has a hard time understanding who Dr. Kavorkian is, we got Apples to Apples Jr. for Christmas and it's perfect for all. I highly recommend this version if you have kids. (One thing I love about the game is that it encourages kids to read.) The other day we were playing it. The word was "annoying" and when Will played a card, with a huge smile on his face, he said, "mowsquatto bitties!!!" The card said mosquito bites. We cracked up and have been calling the pesky bites, mowsquatto bitties ever since.

Spencer's birthday was Saturday and we had a chance to go fishing! It was really fun, but the mosquito's were terrible. Most of us doused ourselves with bug spray. I went to spray Will but he turned it down. Usally I'd make him do it anyway but I checked him and the mosquitos miraclously seemed to be staying away from him. Well,in hindsight, perhaps I should have insisted. The next morning he looked like this: Covered in mowsqatto bitties. We went to Lake Teapot to go fishing & collectively caught 4 fish. Bt seriously, I think the mosquitos had more success, "peopling". Will had 13 bites on his face and 5 on his hands. He's looking better today but seriously folks, wear bug spray or you too could end up covered in mosquatto bitties.

p.s. Look for an upcoming post about my family's idea of Apples to Apples, Baby version.

You & Me in the Mediterranean. Day 3

2011-07-26T15:22:00.009-06:00

Day 3 Venice and the middle of the ocean

HAPPY FATHERS DAY!!! I gave Alfonso the cards that the kids made for him. It was fun.

Hey, I'm writing this on a boat in the middle of the ocean. Not just any boat, a 16 level floating skyscraper. Tearing through the water under a blanket of stars. That being said, let's rewind.

I discovered that the Hilton breakfast featured 13, not 11, different cheeses. Mozz. is my favorite. We woke up early, packed, got our luggage on it's way, & ate breakfast. We boarded a boat that took us to the cruiseship dock. We filled out our forms, got our tickets, cards etc. and got on the ship. And what a ship!!! I really miss the kids and feel quite homesick. I'm trying not to let it show. We had a nice drink party with a our Auto Owners group. Alfonso and I sat next to a nice couple. We visited a while and found out that they are from Salt Lake. Ed & JoAnne. The ship pulled out and we sailed down the Giudecca Canal escorted by some tugboats. Wow, the view of Venice from the top of the ship was incredible!!!

We chatted a while on the deck of the back of the ship and then we went to change for dinner. Dinner was good. We found Ed and Joanne and sat by them. 1 word: Risotto, Delish. 3 words: Brandy soaked Cake. Not so good. blech ech. But the waiters did this hilarious parade carrying the cakes through the restaurant and then this one guy danced with his cake 2 tables away.
I couldn't help but laugh and bury my face. After dinner, Alfonso & I went up to watch the sunset. Again we took lots of pictures. Back to the room. We thought we were going to rest, but no. There was a show and we thought, hey, lets go watch it. 10 seconds hadn't passed since we sat down before I noticed that the band wasn't really playing, they were faking it along with a cheap backup track. Ugh, it ruined it for me. Lets talk about the singers. They were great. The dancers were great. The faking musicians. TERRIBLE. I laughed so much. But I don't think it was supposed to be funny. Anyhoo. There you go. Did you know I'm in Europe and that in Europe it is legal to buy kinder eggs? Did you also know that I LOVE kindereggs?
Did you further know that we bought 4 for the kiddos? Just between you and me we bought a box of kinderegg candy bars too Did you know that I'm about to go and open my fourth one to eat? Yum. Yum. Yum. Yum. I want to tell you what happened when I opened the sliding door on our deck and stepped outside. There was a gust of wind and the sound of rushing. It was the ocean water. We are on the 9th level and towards the front of the ship. The moon was so bright in the sky. Very cool!!!! a lot cool!!! But coolest of all is Alfonso. He is a really cool dad and a terrific husband. By the way, while we were walking around midship, this lady put some stuff on our hands to try to sell us some exotic & over priced dead sea scrub and lotion and stuff. Alfonso started freaking out like a little baby saying, "Ow ow ow! No this really hurts!" The lady was really concerned and immediately backed off. In truth, it hurt his hand a little, but he was just trying to get away from her without buying anything. He is so funny. A stinker, but a funny stinker.

A New Batch of Cousins

2011-07-19T23:44:00.008-06:00

All of these beautiful babies were born in the year 2010. A bumper crop year for Grandma Jo and Grandpa Bill not to mention the entire family. My talented friend Julie Doherty took this wonderful picture. I just can't look at it enough :)

Family reUNION a.k.a. Christmas In July

2011-07-19T21:59:00.007-06:00

Our family wanted to get together this summer. Which isn't an easy feat considering we are spread out across the country. So strings were pulled, airline tickets purchased, insane quantities of gas guzzled and we all met up at mom and dad's house. The weeks festivities include; a hike to elephant rock, a Mueller park cookout, a bouncy house, a scavenger hunt/massive water-fight, a full out Christmas party, and a sunny day @ Cherry Hill Water Park. We had SOOOO much fun. I think one of my favorite things we did was the Christmas party. Since we will not be able to be together this Christmas, we decided to celebrate it early. . . 6 months early. We drew names, had a $5-$10 spending cap, shopped, wrapped, listened to Christmas music, ate an AMAZING dinner, opened presents, and played with our new "toys", Grandma Jo even provided the PERFECT July stocking stuffer. . . SPARKLERS!!! Just spending the time together like that was really special to me. I LOVE my family. Here's a sneak peek from where I was sitting. p.s. Check out the stockings! That's not even all of them. Handiwork of mi beloved madre.

You & Me in the Mediterranean. Day 2

2011-07-12T23:48:00.011-06:00

Day 2 Venice

Adventure 5. Breakfast at the Hilton. Amazing. fruit tart, different breads, mermeladas, a vast selection of cold cuts, over 10 different kinds of CHEESE??? New yogurts, fruits, grapes the size of a silver dollar. Sausages that melt in your mouth. Delicious.

Adventure 6.
The tours. Tour of the doges' palace or palazza ducola, a glimpse of venetian architecture, the art is ON THE WALLS, THE CEILING, BUILT INTO THE FLOOR. I was very impressed at the workmanship and craftsmanship in front of me. People really took their time to MAKE something BEAUTIFUL. I loved it.
The history. Different parts of the palace date back to the 1300's, 1500's etc. Our tour guide was spectacular. A great teacher and he really took his time to paint a rich picture of Venetian history. We saw state rooms, meeting halls, and even the prison.
Very interesting. We passed the bridge of sighs. We went into St. mark's basilica. Ancient building. Built in 1060 a.d. TEN SIXTY A.D.!!! Intricate REAL gold mosaics covered the arched and domed ceilings. There were even mosaics/tiling covering the entire floor. So many geometrical shapes, creating animals and patterns. We last visited the Murano glass factory. We saw a vase and a tiny horse be made out of glass. It was fascinating. The man had such skill as he molded and pulled at the glowing glass.
Did I say fascinating? The showroom made my jaw drop but everything was beyond expensive.
We took a second gondola ride, this time with 4 other strangers from our trip. It was fun but during the day the "streets" are crowded, the sun is hot and it's just a different experience. Our gondolier had a booming angry voice. And when we were caught in a real boat traffic jam, (1 narrow "street", 5 gondolas behind us, 2 in front, all waiting behind a motor boat trying to correct itself after having made a wrong turn)our gondoleir had something to say to the guys in front of us. I'm glad I didn't understand what it was. Adventure 7. Souveniers. Glass bracelets for those who helped us with our kids, a painting, 2 venetian masks, glass birds, necklaces for moms, whirley gigs for boys. lip gloss (because the bag with my makeup was still lost). 2 glass necklaces for me. 2 magnets. We wanted to buy a painting to take home with us. We met a man named Pichio? His paintings were GORGEOUS! He took his time to get a feel for the art we liked. He was very sweet. We eventually discovered he had L.D.S. family members (mormones as he said) he pulled out a pass-along card of Christ and some children. He was a neat man and gave us a 15 euro discout on our painting (in us dollars, that's like 20 bucks). I brought a Book of Mormon on the trip, I promised the girls in my ward that I'd give it to someone, and I was DETERMINED to give it to someone. You know, when you find something good you want to share it? Well I wanted to give my book to Pichio. When we got back to our room, I filled out a message, in english, to him and brought it with me on our return trip to venice, which is adventure #8.

Adventure 8. An unexpected trip back over to the fun. After the tour and souvenier purchasing day. . ., we well, I, was exhausted. WE got back to our room and I just LANDED on the bed. We found out that our luggage had in fact NOT been located and NOT been delivered. Let me refresh you, that means little to no makeup for me, no camera charger, no power converter, no jewlery, no laptop charger, no journal (hence my writing this using precious uncharged, unplugged laptop time), no hair accessories, no scriptures. The biggest emergency though was no camera charger. Hence no more pictures. (You'll notice that the pictures only cover the first part of this blog entry.) Alfonso got info from the concierge about where we could either buy a new camera or charger. And just minutes after landing on the bed, we discovered that in order to reach the shop by it's closing tmie 7:30 actually 19:30. We needed to book it over there PRONTO and we were off, jetting across the water on the hotel shuttle, running through the streets of St. Marcs. over bridges, through alleys, till we finally reached the photo store. . . @ 7:32. THE SHOP WAS CLOSED!!! Discouraged, we meandered around the streets till we found the Rialto bridge. We went to the top of the massive bridge to enjoy the view. Near the bridge we ate a delicious meal. Later we got some gelato and listened to some live musicians. I gave the Book of Mormon and note to a nearby vendor and friend of Pichio, who agreed to give it to him in the morning. When we got to the shuttle area, we discovered that the next shuttle wouldn't come for an hour. ayayay. We decided to try to walk to Zettara, the next shuttle pick up area in 20 minutes. It took over an hour to find our way. My dogs were barkin. My back was achin, but man, it was a beautiful place to get lost in. Some new friends through auto owners is lending us their camera. We talked briefly to our mom's on the phone and checked on the kids. I took a bubble bath and kept falling asleep in the tub. So so soo tired. But I eventually, safely, found my way to the bed and slept with visions of Venice dancing in my head.

You & Me in the Mediterranean. Day 1

2011-06-30T14:00:00.015-06:00

Alfonso qualified for a mediterranean cruise this year through his work. Cruise, hotel, airfare, some excursions, all paid for. I was beside myself with excitement - I've been wanting to go to Italy since I did my 6th grade country report on it. I honestly didn't think I'd get a chance to go there til later in life, if at all. But for some reason the day miraculously came and has now passed. I wanted to keep track of all the memorable things we saw and did, so I wrote it all down, one day at a time. Here's the first day.

Day 1 From Utah to New York to Venice

Really it begins with a blurr of packing, entertaining, birthdaying (hence the crown below made by my sister and nieces), and preparing for departure.

Leaving Mia was so hard. I probably kissed her 40 times that morning and squoze her hand extra tight on the way to the airport. Mom gave me a hug, got choked up, and said, "Mia will be fine. Have a wonderful time. You may never have a chance like this again." I needed that.

Adventure 1. Luggage. We thought we could carry on 2 each. Not so. So we performed a total luggage rearrangement right there at the check out place. Checked 2 in and ended up taking the extra as a carry on. But right before boarding the plane, there was an announcement that there was limited carry-on room and passengers for that flight could check in any bags they wanted to for free. So we were able to check in that bag after all. . . for free. Well, they lost it. It was left @ JFK airport and is now being flown to paris and will then find it's way to my hotel room.

Adventure 2. The flight. I've decided that an international flight is like a giant sleepover. . . on a plane. . . with a bunch of smelly strangers. And that I really REALLY can't sleep on a plane. There were two 12 year olds making out in front of us. Lady bizzarly stomping her foot next to us. The touch screens on the backs of our seats were a real bonus. Except that they were touch screens and required considerable pressure. When I strangely found my seat being vigorously shaken (it felt like someone was punching it) by the person behind me. Serious poundage. I looked @ alfonso in bewilderment and he looked back @ the lady behind me. She was completely wrapped up in playing and winning her game on the back of my chair till she realized what she was doing. "Oh, sorry." She said. I'm just glad that she stopped after that. We got a good laugh about it anyway. Adventure 3. My inflight playlist and a magic landing. You could brows throught hundreds of songs. My favorites were Cee lo green's Bright Lights, Big City, Love Gun, J. Legend & The Roots', Compared To What. Stuff by Miranda Richardson, Tim McGraw, Norah Jones. I also got that main song from Tangled, Now I see the light?Whatever it's called. I really like it and the words were very meaningful.It was playing as we touched down on italian soil. "All those years, watching from a distance. . . . I know I'm where I belong." I've always dreamed of traveling to Italy. My hayfever started acting up. I was just so full of GRATITUDE for this INCREDIBLE experience and humility for having this chance. Adventure 4. The water taxi. After arriving in Venice, we dealt with our missing luggage issue (boooo), and were escorted on a short walk to our water taxi. WE boarded the boat (alfonso said to sit in the back per richard's request). IT was such a fun ride.
We felt the wind in our faces as an old venetian style motor boat cruised us along the coast of venice. Taking us to our hotel, the Molina Stucky Hilton. We saw so many beautiful buildings and began taking pictures. Lots of pictures. Our career as asian photo taking tourists really took off. How do you not take a billion pictures of the most beautiful place you've ever visited? The hotel was AMAZING, the dinner, amazing, and our mini excusion afterwards. . . amazing. Our room was perfect. The dinner was delicious. Buffalo mozzarella - my new favorite. We decided to venture across the Giudecca Canal on the hotels shuttle boat, to the Zattere. First item of business, GELATO!!! For me, 1 scoop Cacao, 1 scoop twix. Alfonso got 1 scoop limona, 1 scoop melona. It melted so fast. We ate it like 2 year olds, giggling the whole time. We strolled along the rios gasping at the architecture, the flowers, the alleyways, and I realized that I'd found a place where every ally was beautiful. Seriously. We stumbled upon a community gathering. A play of some kind? Everyone was celebrating and having a great time. They gave me a candle to light when it got dark. I don't know why, but I was so honored that they would chose me out of all the other people there. I'm wierd, I know. They play started, it was a comedy in Italian of course. We listened and couldn't help laughing at everyone laughing at something we/I didn't understand. Alfonso understood a lot of italian. I guess Spanish and Italian are very similar. We topped the night of with late Gondola ride. (I have to tell you we rode the gondola's at the Venetian in Las Vegas on our honeymoon, where we were told that it was good luck to kiss under each bridge. So we were experts at the gondola thing :))The water was so peaceful. (GAG ALERT, GAG ALERT)Just like on our honeymoon we kissed under every bridge. That was fun. We tried to take pictures but it was so dark, we just wanted to remember how beautiful everything was.

After the ride, we passed by the celebration and watched the local children dance to american pop songs on a stage lit up with lights and smoke. It was so fun.

I woke up in Salt Lake, I ended the night in Venice. It was a very long, but very GOOD day!

Last Day of School

2011-06-14T12:47:00.006-06:00

On the last day of school we took the kids out for ice cream at a great new place in Midway, called Fillerup. We had a seriously rediculously good time. You should check that place out if you get a chance. We particularly enjoyed the jukebox, the games, the hats (of course) and the ice cream. Oh, the ice cream (Bees Knees) is dynamite. Happy summer!!!

Pot of Gold

2011-06-14T07:51:00.005-06:00

Yesterday it rained and a huge rainbow, actually two rainbows formed over our house. We went outside to enjoy the view. I love rainbows. Alfonso got the song, "I'll Build You A Rainbow," and played in from our car in the garage. It was cool. The kids kept wanting to drive to the end of the rainbow to see what was there. But I think the rainbow really ended at our house, and in the words of Spencer, "Maybe the pot of gold was the fun."

The Gift of Gab and other Freebies

2011-06-02T20:51:00.012-06:00

First of all, I want to apologize. I'm sure it seems that with all my latest posts and pictures it seems like Mia is taking over our world. Well, quite frankly, she is. And for some reason everyone around here seems okay with that. For some reason Mia just isn't "getting old." Here are a couple videos (hot off the press), filmed less than an hour ago. Just a glimpse of what we all find sooooooo entertaining from day to day. Also, I wanted to share some pictures with you. So, sorry, and yet not sorry. ;)

Da Da Da Da Blah Blah Blah Blah

With Abuelita Alfa on her 70th Birthday! Mia stopped crying in time to say goodbye.

This is Ben and Miss Mia saying "goodnight." Going in for those eskimo kisses.

I am surprised how often the boys will plop down on the floor and read to Mia. She LOVES it. On this particular night, each book Will was reading to her began like this, "Lets discover colors!" and then he'd read the book, "Lets discover animals. . . " and so on. Priceless.

Spencer is our professional Mia entertainer. He sings to her, dances for her, talks silly till we all go cross-eyed. She absolutely loves it.

Solid proof that Mia should always, ALWAYS wear a bib. And it doesn't hurt to have a burp cloth handy too.

New Tricks

2011-05-06T16:32:00.000-06:00

Mia discovers not only how to bend and reach her toes, but to eat them as well.

Help of the Helpless

2011-05-06T08:57:00.003-06:00

My friend Cristi gave me a great c.d. for Christmas this year, called "Sabbath Morning." I love it because it is so soothing and peaceful and meaningful. It is performed by the Jennie Phillips Choir, which Cristi is a part of. My favorite track is #10, Abide With Me. This is a great hymn anyways but with the arrangement, her voice AND the powerful extra verse she wrote at the end, its just that much cooler. I bring this up because I'm learning that like me, Mia has a thirst for music. In fact she loves it. One day a few months ago, I was driving and she started crying. . . a lot. In an effort to calm her, I turned on track #10, Abide With Me. She quickly stopped crying.

Time and time again, this has happened. I'd say 9 times out of 10, she hears the song and literally STOPS crying. It is amazing. Alfonso and I just look at each other in bewilderment each time. I don't know exactly what it is that she loves so much. It could be the resonating violin solo, it could be the gentle voices, I think it might be the song's message. These words alone are touching; "Help of the helpless, oh, abide with me."

I just need to tell my friend Cristi, thank you for the music, and you need to know that you have made a strong impact on this little baby. Know that there is a mom, not too far away, who plays your song daily, and a baby who adores it.

Here are some pictures from our recent trip to California. The earphones on her little head are playing her favorite song. You can see the effect it has:

Leg Godt

2011-05-04T10:21:00.008-06:00

It's Danish for "play well" and for 5 days in sunny Cali, that's exactly what we did. We went to Legoland and it was extraordinary! The rides were great, the exhibits were BREATHTAKING, and the experience was our kid's dream come true. So, we have literally hundreds of pictures, all fascinating. All fun. But due to the super-needy-saddness of a teething 4-month-old whose name I won't mention, I'll be sharing only a handful. Perhaps it's for the best.
(Mia on the airplane. She was SO GOOD! Never underestimate the power of good music and a lollipop.)

The Abyss

2011-03-25T09:13:00.008-06:00

What do you do when you're down in the dumps? Stuck in a dark abyss? And how do you get there in the first place. I have a hard time opening up about this because I really can't complain. My life is really great. I have an amazing family, and everything I could possibly ever want. I have a quote on my wall stating, "A rich person is not the one who has the most, but needs the least." I like that statement. And honestly, by that definition I am rich, I don't need much. I don't knead much either, but that's another story, bread's never been my forte.

The last few days I've felt really low. After waking in the morning from frequent disturbingly bad dreams I'd feel yucky all day as a result. Kind of empty, like I've gotten lost in the daily grind. Do you ever feel that way? I realized last night why I'm struggling so much. Two important daily habits recently have become non-daily. Not "daily" enough? Anyway, if I don't get down on my knees and talk to my Heavenly Father, and if I don't take time to pick up his words and study them, and listen, I feel noticeably empty. This is a fact for me. And to be honest with you, I'm feeling better just talking about it. Now the trick is to do it.
p.s.Forgive me for talking about religion. I know it's personal. But I'm doing it anyway. We're friends, right?

I think it's important to know yourself and your needs. Take care of yourself,so you can take care of others. So I'm saying "Sayonara" to this abyss and taking the first shuttle out. I'm going to do the things that are essential to my happiness so misery won't take over. In the words of a song by Jenni Phillips, "There's just no room for darkness in our lives." Here's to choosing light.

3 Months

2011-03-22T21:21:00.002-06:00

So, I had a minor foot surgery in February. I developed a neuroma (google it) between my second and third toe during my pregnancy. Since it was getting worse, & cortizone did nothing, I decided to have the inflamed nerve removed. No big deal. Here's a lovely picture though. Looking a lot better! Mia is 3 months old now! My good friend Mandy gave me a little empty photo album for me to fill with pictures of Mia next to a stuffed animal each month of her first year of life. This months pictures are too cute not to share. 1st one was taken in the a.m. Very sad.
p.m. happy

Faboo February Update

2011-02-28T09:44:00.009-07:00

Ben is getting so tall! Everyday he seems a little more grown up just to be counterbalanced by moments a pure immaturity. We love our Ben. He always makes me laugh. Always makes me smile. Sometimes makes me crazy. He has decided he loves techno music and the "Black Eyed Peas." As his taste in music updates, my iPod outdates. Gotsta get some new tunes. Ben is very proud of the fact that he can hold Mia when he's standing up, as he should be. He's very good at it! Spencer loves, I mean LOVES to read. He is currently devouring the "How To Train Your Dragon" series and the "Fablehaven" series. It is not unusual for us to have to pry him away from a book in order to participate in other activities. I'm so thankful he enjoys it! February was literacy month at the school and he ran with it. Spence loves his little sister and just melts and says, "Ooooo Miii-yaaaah" when ever she's around.
Will is too stinkin' smart for his own good. I cannot keep up with the witty, funny, amusing things he says. His vocabulary is growing daily. He's reading at a third grade reading level. He LOVES to play Wii. In fact, yesterday when he said the prayer in primary he ended his very heartfelt prayer with, "Please, bless the Wii." Here's a picture of him listening to my iPod, dressed in his sunday clothes, and snowboots. Priceless.
Mia continues to grow exponentially. She smiles everyday. She has recently discovered her hands and loves to suck on them and swat at her toys with them. She loves to see her brothers smiling faces. She cannot resist falling asleep in daddy's arms. She is such a joy. I've been singing to her, and it feels good to be doing it again. Our favorite diaper changing songs are, "My Favorite Things," and "Getting to Know You." When I sing them she often will stop crying and listen with big eyes. She's my sidekick and partner in crime. I feel like we're becoming quite the dynamic duo. p.s. I can't help but play dress up with her all the time. She has so many clothes, I don't want to miss seeing her in them. She's usually a good sport about it :) This having a baby business takes it's toll on the emotions and Alfonso has been and continues to be my rock through it all. I cannot help but lean on him for support. He helps me to laugh when I'm too serious, and helps me to believe in myself when I feel like a failure. I'm so glad I have him to keep me grounded and can only hope that I'm giving as much as I'm recieving. I'll try at least.
He took the guys to the Monster Truck Rally and to see the Harlem Globetrotters last weekend. I didn't go because I was recovering from a little foot surgery. Which is ok, it's good for them to have some "guy" time together. As you can see, they had a GREAT TIME!!!

Blessed

2011-02-14T17:17:00.006-07:00

Yesterday we blessed Mia at our church. It was a small affair, just some close family members and our ward family. I was so rediculously nervous that Mia would spit up on her dress, like that would even matter. She didn't, by the way. Alfonso gave her a beautiful blessing. He decided to bless her in English even though it is his second language. As the blessing began, he did great, but I could tell he was struggling a little to find the words he wanted to say. Later I found out that Mia was wide awake during the whole prayer just gazing up at the faces of the preisthood holders around her. By the middle of the prayer, Alfonso paused for a long moment, and then proceeded to pray in Spanish til the end of the blessing. Although I dont speak spanish, I was able to catch glimpses of he was saying, I felt the spirit and knew that he was speaking directly from his heart. It was absolutely beautiful. After sacrament meeting we planned to head home for a small get-together at the house. One small hiccup, Ben and Spencer didn't get the memo. And in the chaos of the emptying chapel, we lost track of them. Alfonso and I lingered at the church for a while trying to figure out if they had gotten a ride home or if they had gone to the bathroom or something. Hoping they had gone home with family, we left for home, all the while trying to call various family members on their silenced phones. When we got home, they were NOT THERE. Alfonso rushed back to the church only to find them sitting in their primary classes, with no clue what was going on. I felt like I had experienced a genuine "bad parent" moment. Anyway, we finally got them home safe and sound and the eating, visiting, and playing could begin.

Here's a picture of Mia and her little cousin Natalee. They are only one month apart, I can already tell they are going to be good friends.

My dad and brother-in-law Rob, were able to sleep through most of it :) Aren't sunday naps the best?

Midway Ice Castles!

2011-02-02T10:13:00.001-07:00

This was so beautiful and fun! Dress warm though! It's -18 degrees outside right now!

Mia - 1 Month

2011-01-30T12:41:00.004-07:00

My extremetly talented friend, Lori Muse, came over Wednesday to take some pictures of Mia. I can't believe Mia's already 1 month old! Lori did a fantastic job with a particularly uncooperative subject who cried at least 85% of the time.

Mia, here's lookin' at you kid!

Welcome Little Mia!

2010-12-21T19:36:00.009-07:00

Mia Isabella was born via cesearean section on December 20th, 2010 @ 1:15 p.m. She weighed 9 lbs. 5 oz. and had a headful of dark black hair. Within the recent minutes, hours, and days, she has completely taken over our hearts. Welcome to the world, little one!

Here are some pictures telling the story of her arrival:

Status Update

2010-12-16T21:42:00.002-07:00

Okay, seriously, I'm done.

December, So Far

2010-12-13T20:52:00.006-07:00

Some fun things have been happening this month. I figure I'd better blog about them while I have the free time, if you know what I mean. We built a super sweet gingerbread house! Alfonso and Ben had a marshmallow snowman building contest. Very fun. Ben graduated from the D.A.R.E program. We are proud of him and all that he learned. Here he is pictured with a total babe. . . I mean, the keynote speaker, Heather Anderson a.k.a. Miss Utah 2007. And yes, he has this picture in his locker. On Sunday, Carrie and Nick blessed their baby in their home. It was so special. It was great to spend some time with family. And I just have to say, that my nephew, Riley is a total stud. Isn't he cute??? Here's Delynn with baby Natalee on her special day. I just need to take a moment to say that Alfonso is THE MOST patient man I've ever known! Okay, this was seriously cool. Alfonso and I had just finished our chinese food and opened up our fortunes together. We laughed so hard. "Short stranger", eh? I think they might be on to something.

My New Neice

2010-12-10T05:17:00.005-07:00

I got to hold her the day she was born! Then I got sick for a week with this crazy virus that's going around, and each of the boys got it too. Finally two weeks after her birthday, I was able to hold her again. Isn't she beautiful? Her name is Natalee Rochelle!

I can tell already that we are going to be good friends. Welcome to the world little one!

9 Months - How I feel - Complete With Visual Aids

2010-12-07T06:31:00.006-07:00

My ability to grip items can be summed up in one word, non-existant. I drop everything and when I muster the willpower to pick it up off the floor, I do it with the grace of a dwarf on stilts.

I have the alluring waistline of Homer Simpson.

When walking, I have the unmistakeable teetering gait of E.T. or Yoda, yet sadly with none of the superpowers.

Weight gain, swelling, and hormones have turned me into a bear. Hornery, lazy, and huge.

And to top it all off, I have accumulated the recall ability and razor sharp wit of an ostrich.

That's how I feel, no complaints, just statin' the facts. :) Yay for pregnancy!!!

Huggies and Kisses - A Bit of Insanity

2010-11-30T09:31:00.006-07:00

At the diaper shower we had a few weeks ago, my brilliant friend Amy gave me the gift of "Huggies" and "Kisses." Great play on words, my friend. After the shower, I carefully put the Huggies away, awaiting their lucky day to get soiled. I also put the Kisses away, to be eaten after the baby is born (in the meantime, I'm supposed to avoid sugar, I know, BOOOOOO!). Well, this morning, I buckled under the pressure. I totally caved. I've been feeling so cranky, and uncomfortable. I'm just getting over a nasty cold. The baby is obviously still in the tum, the Huggies are sadly still in pristine condish, so I had no choice but to raid the Kisses. Don't judge me. . . don't you dare judge me.
Ohhh, sweet revenge. Although I'm not sure what I'm proving to whom, I am sure that it tastes fabulous.

p.s. THANK YOU AMY!!!!

Giving Thanks - #8 - Our Thanksgiving Tree

2010-11-26T11:33:00.004-07:00

If you look in our living room you'll see our first ever, Thanksgiving Tree. I wanted us each to have a chance to count our blessings and this came to my mind. Each leaf represesents something someone is thankful for. It has been a terrific excercise. I hope your Thanksgiving was extraordinary; and even though we are moving on to the Christmas season, maybe we can keep counting our blessings with a spirit of Thanksgiving.

Happy Birthday Alfonso!!!

2010-11-22T15:07:00.003-07:00

Happy birthday to a truly remarkable person. We LOVE YOU!!!

Giving Thanks - #7 For The Baby

2010-11-19T09:08:00.005-07:00

I don't mean to complain, but this pregnancy has been kind of rough. I am definitely FEELING 8 1/2 months pregnant, what with all those wonderful consistant aches and pains, not to mention the baby's random soccer practice routines she loves to do in the middle of the night. (We are lovingly calling her our super-hero, ninja, princess, tap dancing, aerobic intructor baby. Yeah, she's a live one.) Minor complaints aside, I wouldn't trade this experience for anything. I'm so THANKFUL that she's coming. And seriously, I can deal with the lovely side-effects, its a very small price to pay for a healthy little one.

Yeah, totally worth it. :)

Giving Thanks - #6 For My Sister, Delynn

2010-11-16T09:05:00.003-07:00

I was the annoying little sister. You were the popular fashionista. For some reason we did NOT get along very well, did we? I am so glad for the passage of time and the chance we've had to become FRIENDS! You truly are one of my BEST friends and I can't imagine life without you. Thanks for being there. Thanks for not killing me when I wore your clothes without permission. Thanks for being my sister. "HEY! THAT'S MY SISTER!!" I love you, Delynn :)

Giving Thanks - #5 For Three Rays of Sunshine

2010-11-15T12:48:00.008-07:00

Particularly named, Benjamin, Spencer, and William. I cannot. . . rephrase, I REFUSE to imagine life without them. Children change our lives in ways that can never be anticipated and in quantities that cannot be concieved. Rain or shine, happy or cranky, naughty or nice, they are each a vital part of me. I wouldn't trade them for the world and all it's treasures. I am so thankful to God for sending them to our family.

“The child must know that he is a miracle, that since the beginning of the world there hasn't been, and until the end of the world there will not be, another child like him.”
Pablo Casals

Giving Thanks - #4 For Dirty Dishes

2010-11-14T18:41:00.002-07:00

Lord, thank you for this sink of dirty dishes;
We have plenty of food to eat.
Thank you for this pile of dirty, stinky laundry;
We have plenty of nice clothes to wear.
And I would like to thank you, Lord, for those unmade beds;
They were so warm and comfortable last night.
I know that many have no bed.
My thanks to you, Lord, for this bathroom,
Complete with all the splattered mirrors, soggy, grimy towels and dirty lavatory;
They are so convenient.
Thank you for this finger-smudged refrigerator that needs defrosting so badly;
It has served us faithfully for many years.
It is full of cold drinks and enough leftovers for two or three meals.
Thank you, Lord, for this oven that absolutely must be cleaned today.
It has baked so many things over the years.
The whole family is grateful for that tall grass that needs mowing,
The lawn that needs raking;
We all enjoy the yard.
Thank you, Lord, even for that slamming screen door.
My kids are healthy and able to run and play.
Lord, the presence of all these chores awaiting me says
You have richly blessed my family.
I shall do them cheerfully and I shall do them gratefully.

Author Unknown

Giving Thanks - #3 For A Good Man

2010-11-12T09:01:00.005-07:00

You better believe they are out there! But after being badly hurt at one point, I wondered. I really did. But for some inexplicable reason, God allowed me the chance to know the genuine article, a truly good man. Alfonso is the light of my life. Never before has anyone treated me so kindly. I've never known someone so caring, attentive and accepting as he. So today I want to thank my Heavenly Father for seeing fit to send me this man and I just have to tell you, Alfonso, I LOVE you. Thank you for being you.

Shower Time!

2010-11-10T12:44:00.000-07:00

Giving Thanks - #2 For Antibiotics

2010-11-10T11:41:00.003-07:00

Get well soon, Will.

Giving Thanks - #1 For People

2010-11-03T10:51:00.005-06:00

Artwork by Paige Pooler

#1 For People: I have so much to be thankful for. But I want to start with the people in my life. It takes a lot of patience to put up with me and my crazy antics. Especially now as the birth of our baby approaches. I have been more needy and difficult than ever, yet I have felt so much love and support from all directions. I just want to send this out to you, thank you for being there, even when I'm not. Thank you for being kind to me and for keeping me going.

Thank you for being you!

"In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit."

Albert Schweitzer

"One's friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human."

George Santayana

Witches Night Out - Part Two

2010-11-01T05:16:00.006-06:00

As promised, (and mucho thanks to D.D.) here are the rest of the pictures from our fabulous night! This is really just a glimpse of all we saw!

D.D., the headless freak bride, and Megan.

Our witchy crew and some seriously tall dudes.

Brazilla, Me, and the reigning Queen, Talullah Spellbottom.

Megan and a freaky masked man.

While shopping, I ran into one of my favorite people! So good to see you, Sarah!

Megan got a witchy manicure!

In her own words, "I was so scared, I almost started crying!"

Carrie, D.D., the lovable Lucinda, Me, Megan, and Mom

Thanks for a GREAT night girls!!!

Costumes, Jack-O-Lanterns, and Smiles

2010-10-30T13:33:00.004-06:00

Every year Mom throws a great Halloween party at her house. This year was better than ever. The costumes were entertaining, the food was festively delicious, and the pumpkin carving was messier than ever.

Currently Haunting My Front Yard

2010-10-28T09:09:00.004-06:00

Several years ago, my mom made some ghosts that grace her front lawn every Halloween. They are so adorable. This year, with A LOT of help from her and my sister-in-law Carrie, we made a gaggle of ghosts for my lawn! It just goes to show what some old hotel sheets, p.v.c. pipe, a dab of black paint and a little creativity will do! Next year I plan to add some spooky accessories.

BOO!

October Creativity

2010-10-26T17:34:00.005-06:00

I took these to some friends today. They turned out cute, I think.

If you'd like to share this message with a friend, shoot me an email @ imsoronry@yahoo.com and I'll send you the Word document. The message goes like this;

"Being a Christian
is like being a Pumpkin.

God lifts you up, takes you in, and washes all the dirt off of you. He opens you up, touches deep inside and scoops out all the yucky stuff-- including the seeds of doubt, hate, greed etc.
Then he carves you a new smiling face and puts His light inside of you to shine
for all the world to see." Author unknown.

And just for fun, here's some silly Halloween friends I painted while the kids were playing with watercolors. JTWIS.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!

Witches Night Out - Part One

2010-10-25T09:05:00.007-06:00

Witches night out has become an unmissable tradition around here! Each year is a riot. This one was no different. Before we headed out to Gardner Village for the fun festivities, we gathered at mom's house for a few laugh and get some pictures. We've been doing this for the last four years. Yes, we're a bunch of dorks, and YES, we had an absolutely FABULOUS time!

Stay tuned for more!

Happy?

2010-10-23T16:35:00.001-06:00

I stumbled across this the other day and LOVED IT! Could the key to happiness possibly be this simple? Follow the arrows. What do you think?

Good Times at Hee Haw Farm

2010-10-21T09:58:00.002-06:00

Yesterday Alfonso and I realized that for once (in a long while) we didn't have any obligations or appointments in the evening. Scouts had been canceled. Mutual delayed. The question was, "What to do?" Stay home? Go to a movie? For the last two years, close to Halloween, we've taken the kids to a farm @ Pleasant Grove. They have so many fun things to do. Since the night was open, we piled in the car and headed down. I'm so glad we did! Here's just a few things we did there:

for more info visit their website http://www.heehawfarms.com/

Halloweenie

2010-10-19T12:17:00.008-06:00

So the Relief Society in my mom's ward had a "Dinner With a Witch" night last week and they needed some witches to entertain. Due to my progressively "swell" state of being, the coordinater had to twist my arm to do it - but I'm glad I did, we all had so much fun. The dinner was fabulous, by the way Merideth, I need that recipe for those yummy witch fingers!!! Mildew Rose, Hyperspeed Helga, and Spells O'Hara
Mildew Rose was a Marvelous Emcee
Helga does her thang.This witch gave the greatest performance of the night!She sang, "Little Purple Pansies" 100% OFF key!!! It was great!
A close-up of Spells O'Hara's massive hiney. BOO!
I just have to show you my cute witch I bought with my prize $ from the Witch contest last year. Currently on display in my living room :)

Showered!!!

2010-10-19T12:15:00.003-06:00

Last weekend, My friend Marcie, Delynn, and my mom threw a baby shower for me. It was so fun. I appreciate the people who came and all the thoughtful gifts. Thanks everyone!!!

Pinewood Derby 2010

2010-10-19T09:32:00.005-06:00

Way to go Spence and Ben! You guys did great!!!

Rocky: New Family, New Friends

2010-10-03T04:43:00.008-06:00

By their own design (let's just say, wild horses couldn't keep them apart), Rocky's mom and dad had puppies! 10 to be exact. Dad is an Akbash, Mom's a Kuvasz. Their puppies, adorable bundles of snow-white fur. We took the kids to see them and reminisce of Rocky's smaller days. Here's Rocky's mom. She looked tired. But she is a very kind and patient mom.
SO SOFT!!!

Rocky got a new house, generously given to us by some fantastic neighbors (Thanks Mel!!). His previous doghouse was way way way way way way too small. He is still adjusting to the spacious accomodations. A week or so ago, we babysat my nephew, Ammon. He loved our "woof woof" and despite minor differences in size, the two got along famously.

Stuffeth That Hath Happeneth

2010-09-14T14:55:00.011-06:00

a.k.a. things I've failed to blog about.

Rocky keeps growin'!

Spencer turned 9!!!

We went to the Heber Demolition Derby!

Had fun at the Wasatch Valley Stampede!
The Robertson's took us boating!
Look out! Ben's driving!!! We went to Lagoon!
Will turned 6!!
We celebrated our 2nd Anniversary
Will lost yet another tooth.

Hyperspeed Helga surrendered her crown to the new Queen of Halloween, Tallulah Spellbottom. The guys pose after an awesome Missionary themed Primary Party.

Thank You, Conan O'Brien

2010-09-08T09:24:00.002-06:00

My friend Heather posted this on her blog and I thought it was just too good not to share. Plus I'm a big fan of Conan O'Brien.

Work hard. Be Kind. :)

Thank You, Uncle Nick

2010-09-07T03:59:00.003-06:00

We celebrated my dad's birthday last night with some delicious homemade peach pies, courtesy of jo-bob! They were delicious!!! Spencer found that only the whipped cream interested him. As he leaned over to lick it up, Uncle Nick felt obligated to "assist" him, using the old, shove the face into the food maneuver; a family classic which will likely be handed down for generations.

Poor Spence was shocked at first and then laughed so hard he had tears in his eyes. He was a great sport. Thank you, Uncle Nick. Thank you.

Happy Birthday Will!

2010-08-31T09:04:00.004-06:00

My baby's turning 6 years old today! I sure love him! Have a great day William, you're a bright ray of sunshine in my world!!!

21 Day Challenge - Day 21

2010-08-30T22:57:00.003-06:00

Wow! I can't believe times up! It has been so nice to take a little time out each day and be creative. To make something new and remind myself that I can stretch and grow artistically. All in all, I'm excited about this new "habit." One of the biggest surprises to come from all this is my new fondness for computer graphics. The "Paint" program was so fun to use and I'd like to get into it more. And perhaps at some point move on to a more advanced program. In the meantime, here she is, picture 21!!!

Day 21 Hooked These guys are hungry, but are they willing to take a bite? It took about 1 hour to create. Thanks everyone for your support and feedback throughout this experience (especially you, Alfonso! I couldn't have stuck to it without your support!)I'll try to keep posting any new artwork just for the fun of it! THANKS!!!

21 Day Challenge - Day 20

2010-08-29T22:58:00.003-06:00

I thought I'd try something super different today by creating my picture entirely on the computer. For me, this is foreign territory, but I had so much fun experimenting and trying something new. The program is called "Paint." It is probably incredibly outdated, but it sufficed.

Day 20 Who
It looks like someone just tried to sneak up on these two. I love how their eyes are totally skiwompus. This took about an hour to create. Yay for trying new things!!!

21 Day Challenge - Day 19

2010-08-29T00:00:00.011-06:00

We arrived home about 20 minutes ago. It's really been a wonderful (but very long) day. Alfonso suggested, given my drowsy state of being, that I draw something like this. p.s. this took him about 1 minute and was created on the back of a phone bill envelope.: Thank you Alfonso for the contribution, and the inspiring message. However, I thought I'd do something just as simple, yet educational. See, one of my favorite games to play with my kids is the scribble game. They scribble something on a piece of paper, and I (as quickly as possible) try to turn it into a picture of some sort. So you start with something like this:
And rotate the picture if necessary, until you see a potential image. Then you get your pen, add a little of this and that and. . . voila!!!

Day 19 Scribble Game

From sketch to finish about 30 seconds. I used computer paper and that darn blasted ball point pen.

21 Day Challenge - Day 18

2010-08-27T21:36:00.002-06:00

I had chicks in mind tonight. They're mighty hungry.

Day 18 Peep
Sketch to finish, 45 minutes. I used cold press paper, watercolors and (big mistake) a leaky ball point pen.

21 Day Challenge - Day 17

2010-08-26T20:57:00.003-06:00

It's getting difficult to think of things to draw. With so many good suggestions, I get these elaborate ideas in my head of how to accomplish them. Sometimes they are too elaborate so I end up ditching them and doing somthing like this:

Day 17 5 Cents

This is the ice cream cone that should have been. We were making plans to go celebrate the survival of their first day of school with an ocean commotion ice cream cone, when the kids began to act like crazy people. Sometimes I truly feel like I live in a mad house. Anyhoo, ice cream rights were revoked and this poor little thing never made it past the page. Sketch to finish about 45 minutes. I used bristol paper and colored pencils. I tried to go retro. Why the bubbles? I don't know.

Do you have a favorite so far? Are you getting bored of all this? Sometimes I wonder if I am too. On the down side, this process has been a bit tedious at times. However, on the plus side, I am becoming reacquainted with the solace I feel when creating something. It is remarkably therapeutic. I just wish I had something more interesting for ya'll to look at. But don't worry, only 4 more days left :)

First Day

2010-08-26T09:28:00.004-06:00

My 5th Grader

My 4th Grader My 1st Grader

I have to admit I've been looking forward to this day. It's been a long summer break. But as this new school year has approached, I've begun to have mixed feelings. It's like I want to shout, "Wait! Don't grow up! Let's just stay this way a little longer." But time has a way of ticking on, whether or not you want it to. After dropping them off at school today, I felt so empty handed. It just drives home the fact that I love these boys and cannot imagine life without each one of them. Happy new (school) year guys! I know it's going to be a great one!!!

21 Day Challenge - Day 16

2010-08-25T22:25:00.002-06:00

Today was long. Not much to say except, trick or treat?

Day 16 El diablito, la brujita y el fantasma
From sketch to finish about 1 hour 30 minutes. Cold press paper and watercolors. So tired.

21 Day Challenge - Day 15

2010-08-24T22:02:00.003-06:00

It took a while to finally decide what to draw today. Once again the kids suggested something a little wacky; stick figure aliens abducting the animals on a farm. Wierd! I started drawing a farm and didn't have the heart to finish. Then a lemon came to mind. A lemon and a lime, no a lemon and a strawberry.

Day 15 Sweet & Sour

They're surprisingly good friends, despite having totally opposite tastes. I love the strawberry's mary janes. Suddenly I'm thinking a strawberry lemonade is in order. :) Sketch to finish 45 minutes. I used colored pencils and bristol paper. And this time, I finally remembered to sign it!

21 Day Challenge - Day 14

2010-08-23T12:36:00.004-06:00

Guess what movie Ben and I watched this morning. . . it starts with "Little," and ends with, "Shop of Horrors." So I have killer plants on the brain, whatcha gonna do?

Day 14 Wrong Place, Wrong Time

This little girl needs to pay serious attention to her surroundings or she'll quickly become someone elses snack. Sketch to finish, 94 minutes (the exact length of the movie). I used bristol paper and colored pencils.

21 Day Challenge - Day 13

2010-08-22T20:33:00.005-06:00

Today I taught a class about the importance of life. My mind kept thinking of that board game. Metaphorically speaking, we are all players in the game of life. I love my little carload. Every twist and turn, every drawback and payday, is more enjoyable with my family. I love this game!

Day 13 The Game of Life Sketch to finish it took 2 hours. Bristol paper, colored pencils. Click on the picture if you'd like a closer look. :)

21 Day Challenge - Day 12

2010-08-21T22:16:00.004-06:00

If you've been following along, you'll know that we went to Lagoon, a local theme park, recently. Alfonso won a lion and a monkey for me and Ben won an Ugly Doll named Domo. When trying to decide what to draw the other day, Ben came up with this idea and Spencer not only caught on but did a mock up for me. I love it!

Day 12 Lagoon Friends From sketch to finish it took 45 minutes. I used watercolor paper and watercolors. Thanks for the help boys!!! :) I couldn't have done it without you!!!

21 Day Challenge - Day 11

2010-08-20T17:20:00.003-06:00

I was going to draw a monkey, but didn't have time. This will have to do.

Day 11 - Superstar
Sketch to finish, 30 minutes. I used watercolor paper and watercolors. Hoooo rah!

21 Day Challenge - Day 10

2010-08-19T20:48:00.003-06:00

My grandma Lottie had Alzheimer's Disease. I remember as a kid having to tell her my name repeatedly. She spent hours seated in front of her large front window, smoothing her hands along the creases of her dress, staring at the sky. One day I sat next to her smoothing my hands along my jeans, trying to see what she saw in the clouds. I was thinking about that day recently and thought how I'd like to capture it somehow. She wasn't wearing a white dress, but I didn't have the heart to paint it any color. White seemed just right. This is just a draft, but you kind of get the idea.

Day 10 Remember Me? Draft 1

From sketch to finish, 70 minutes. I used watercolor paper, pencil, and watercolors.

21 Day Challenge - Day 9

2010-08-18T10:16:00.004-06:00

Day 9 Lagoon. I haven't been there for at least 11 years. Looking forward to a day of smiles, thrills, and mild swelling. I used lined paper and a blue ball-point pen. From start to finish, this took about 10 seconds.

21 Day Challenge - Day 8

2010-08-17T17:55:00.011-06:00

Day 8 Flapper. This girl reminds me of my Grandma, only without red hair. Thoroughly modern. Totally fabulous. From sketch to finish it took 1 hour. Bristol paper, colored pencils & a little help from Microsoft Word.

21 Day Challenge - Day 7

2010-08-17T00:11:00.007-06:00

I really need to get out of the habit of finishing these pictures just before midnight. Tonight was cut a little too close. Anyway, we went out on the lake today and had a wonderful time. I suppose as a result of all that water, I have fish on the brain.

Day 7 Lovely Fish

I just love the beauty mark. She's like an undersea super model. I don't know how long it took. :( Too tired to think. Bristol paper, colored pencils. Goodnight :)

21 Day Challenge - Day 6

2010-08-15T22:44:00.005-06:00

My neices and I broke out the paints tonight and had a great time at Grandma's house. I made the killer lady bug to show Allie what abstract art can look like. I made the hive to show Megan what a beehive looks like. Not perfect, not anything remarkable, but we had fun. :)

Day 6 - The Killer Ladybug

and Home Sweet Hive

I couldn't decide which picture to use for today so I'm sharing both. Which is your favorite? From sketch to finish they took 1 hour. I used cold press paper, and watercolors.

21 Day Challenge - Day 5

2010-08-14T18:43:00.002-06:00

I had a chance to sing today and it made me re-realize that when I'm singing (this is going to sound cheesy) but it feels like I'm flying. As I tried to decide what to draw today, I turned to the kids for help. Will suggested I draw a "stupid person." Spencer suggested a battle or an alien abduction on a farm. I got started on each of these things, but surprisingly, my heart wasn't in it.

So I decided to go with the image I had in mind previously this morning. Flying. p.s. I love angels.

Day 5 - Night Flight

From start to finish it took 1 hour and 30 mins. I used Bristol paper, watercolors, and salt.

21 Day Challenge - Day 4

2010-08-13T22:37:00.007-06:00

Sorry it's so late at night. We left the house @ 8:00 a.m. and didn't get home til 9:30 p.m. From Layton, Salt Lake, to Park City, it was a busy, fun day! As I tried to think of what I'd draw today, I kept thinking of a little worm on a wall, crying. Strange I know.

Day 4 - The Day They Cut Down the Apple Tree

It's nice to have a good friend nearby when you're feeling down. Even if it is your natural enemy :) I used colored pencil and bristol paper. From sketch to finish, 40 minutes.

21 Day Challenge - Day 3

2010-08-12T16:29:00.004-06:00

Drawing this picture was a great outlet today, very therapeutic. I don't know how long it took to complete because I was multi-tasking in a major way. Interruptions include, but not limited to, tending neighbor kids, cooking ramen, passing out popsicles, entertaining "the bored", cleaning the kitchen, rotating laundry (of course), refereeing fights, not peeing my pants, and enjoying a delectable tangerine. :) I love my job!

Day 3 - Surrender
I used color pencils, computer paper, and a magic marker.

21 Day Challenge - Day 2

2010-08-11T17:48:00.004-06:00

Day 2, Me Want Butterfly

If she was just a few inches taller, she'd have it. 1 Hour from sketch to finish. I used a magic marker, pastels, and computer paper (I'm out of the good kind).

21 Day Challenge - Day 1

2010-08-10T17:11:00.005-06:00

I recently found a great new blog called A Knack For Art. Check out his stuff, it's so entertaining! In it, artist and blog author Mike R. Baker, decides to take on a fellow artist Gina Perry's, 21 Day Challenge. For more info about this challenge, click here . The concept behind the challenge is, if you do something consistantly for 21 days, even for just 15 minutes, it will become a habit. Mike and Gina (both professional artists and illustrators) used this challenge to create new works of art each day using new mediums and techniques. I've decided to keep it simple and just create a new work of art each day.

Day 1, The Friendly Octopus

Talk about Mr. poplular. From sketch to finish it took me about 2 hours, using a magic marker, cold press paper, and watercolors. Hopefully I'll get better @ scanning :)

p.s. This challenge is not just limited to artwork. Imagine ANY hobby, exercise, housecleaning, yardwork, dancing, playing with your pet, calling a long lost friend each day, the possibilities are endless. However, if any of you decide to take on the challenge, let me know. We can help each other stay on track. Wish me luck and visit here tomorrow to see what I come up with.

Nesting

2010-08-09T10:00:00.004-06:00

Lately I've had an uncontrollable urge to do something. But timing and circumstances are not in compliance. At least I can blog about it. Thanks to Mike R. Baker, here's a glimpse into my one track brain. . .

Time To Think Pink!

2010-07-20T13:49:00.003-06:00

After visiting the Dr. yesterday, we found that our little baby is growing healthy and strong. I'm 17 weeks along. And our due date is December 28th (it keeps moving closer with each visit). We are so humbled that Heavenly Father is sending a baby to us and that all is going well so far. We also discovered that "it" is a "she"!!!! We are so incredibly excited. I love my boys, but this is truly a dream come true for me. Hair, bows, princesses, drama, tears, stretchy tights and shiny shoes. Bring it on!!!

What do you think?

2010-07-17T13:19:00.000-06:00

Boy

or

Girl?

Adventure In Our Own Backyard

2010-07-09T10:57:00.009-06:00

The Pow-Wow @ Soldier Hollow was so much fun! The guys even got to go out and dance! Incredible regalia!
The two headed man.
Spencer takes it all in.
Ben and Alfonso out in the action.

Each year our library has a huge (COMPLETELY FREE) party, picnic, entertainment, the works. It's something not to miss! Ben got his face painted to look like the Joker!
Spencer's lightning bolt. Will got a skeleton hand!
Scales and Tails was also there. Making things veHEHhery interesting! Check out that boa!!!
Twinkle-toes the tortoise.
Slice the ball python.

I'm TERRIFIED OF SPIDERS. One of the things on my "bucket list" is to let a live spider crawl on my hand before I die. Well, I was feeling brave, there was a tarantula nearby, so took the plunge. It was so scary, but I'm proud of myself for doing it! Thanks Scales and Tails!

Playing dress-up with the rock star.
I had a wonderful 31st birthday thanks to my family! Here's my birthday breakfast deliciously topped off with CAKE! What a way to start the day!
Spencer(The king of birthdays) dressed me up :)
Mom and I got manis and pedis at Happy Nails, downtown SLC. It was divine!

Afterwards, we enjoyed the incredible food @ The Gourmandise Bakery. That raspberry tart has a special place in my heart :)
Later on we partied at my house. Thanks everybody for a wonderful day!

Let me put on a baker's hat.

2010-06-18T17:10:00.002-06:00

12 weeks along! Baby growing healthy & strong! We are so happy. So hopeful. If you remember to, send up a prayer.

Men in Training

2010-06-12T13:09:00.005-06:00

One sunny Saturday.
One patient Dad.
Three reluctant boys.
One proud and extremely annoying mom with a camera.

At first they were groaning, but after a while they were seriously having fun. My heart was swelling with pride. :) My favorite thing was seeing Spence push that massive lawn mower. Grrr. Build those muscles!! This was one of those days that I'm reminded, despite the urine sprinkled on the toilet, that I'm so lucky to have boys!

A Few Things We've Been Up To

2010-06-01T16:43:00.007-06:00

The third graders celebrated their own "Grandparents Day." A whole day was set aside to honor and spend time with their grandparents (who came from all over the place). The kids made gifts and even put on an entertaining program. My mom was planning to be there with Spence, but she got very sick the night before. Fortunately, my dad, Billy-Bob called in sick at work and was able to come instead. ;) It was a special day for these two. Thanks again dad, for "being there."

As Rocky continues to grow like a weed, our love is rapidly growing for him too. He is such a mellow, smart and smelly dog. The kids are really enjoying having him around. Here are some pictures of Rocky, Ben, and Will having some "down" time.

My neices Megan and Allie performed in a Dance Recital and did fantastic jobs. They are so talented AND beautiful. It was fun to see them demonstrate all the hard work and time they've invested. Good job girls! I was surprised because I thought the boys might not really appreciate it. You know, dancing, costumes, etc. But as you can see they had a great time and by the time we got home, they were all tuckered out.

We spent some time this Memorial Day weekend with Alfonso's family, remembering his super amazing dad who passed away several years ago. His mom is such a wonderful woman, and has been so strong facing his loss and carrying on with her life. I truly admire her. It was a special day.

Being Alive

2010-05-26T07:10:00.000-06:00

Yesterday this song was performed by Kelly DeHaan at Heather's Memorial Concert. It made me realize that even though sometimes it hurts to be alive, I'm so glad I am. I was very deeply touched by the lyrics and his performance. I wish I could somehow share it with you, but the following will have to do. By Stephen Sondheim, and performance by Bernadette Peters.

Someone to hold you too close
Someone to hurt you too deep
Someone to sit in your chair
And ruin your sleep
And make you aware of being alive

Someone to need you too much
Someone to know you too well
Someone to pull you up short
And put you through hell
And give you support for being alive-being alive
Make me alive, make me confused
Mock me with praise, let me be used
Vary my days, but alone is alone, not alive!

Somebody hold me too close
Somebody force me to care
Somebody make me come through
I'll always be there
As frightened as you of being alive,
Being alive, being alive!

Someone you have to let in
Someone whose feelings you spare
Someone who, like it or not
Will want you to share a little, a lot of being alive
Make me alive, make me confused
Mock me with praise, let me be used
Vary my days, but alone is alone, not alive!

Somebody crowd me with love
Somebody force me to care
Somebody make me come through
I'll always be there
As frightened as you to help us survive,
Being alive, being alive, being alive, being alive.

Thank You Heather Jo!

2010-05-20T23:01:00.005-06:00

Heather, Me, and Eden in NYC.
She was my friend through THICK and THIN. She passed away the other night. She had cancer, the unstoppable type. But she has an unstoppable spirit, that I KNOW will keep going. I am so thankful I got to see her one last time before she left. I feel very lucky.

In 2003, Heather and I, and our friend Eden flew to New York to audition for American Idol. We didn't make it past the first cut, but had a wonderful time! Here are some pictures from that unforgettable trip.

1 a.m., camped out in the streets of NY, waiting for AI audition time. (Heather's the one sandwiched in the middle.)

After seeing the AMAZING origional cast of "Thouroughly Modern Millie," we got a picture with my friend and TMM castmember, Paul Canaan and Sutton Foster (Millie).

Heather makes the sad face at Sardi's.

Taking in some jazz @ Birdland.

Heather, I'll remember those good times; surviving Cedar, letting Julie Aigner-Clark raise our babies, wandering Wal-Mart, and laughing til we cried. Thank you for loving me, forgiving me, and setting an unparalleled example for me to cherish.

Love, Rochelle a.k.a. "Sheilagh"
p.s. I'm counting on an apple pie run in heaven. Surely they'll have a McDonald's up there somewhere (They're EVERYWHERE!)

The King of Birthdays

2010-05-17T12:59:00.005-06:00

Spencer was taking an extra long time changing into his pajamas. I was just about to check to see what the delay was when I heard him approach, exclaiming, "I'm the King of Birthdays!" I just couldn't resist taking a picture or two.

I bet you'd never seen the King of Birthdays before. Neither had I. I'm learning there's a first for everything :)

Thank You C.C.!

2010-05-17T12:41:00.006-06:00

Thank goodness for good friends like Marcie Hastings. She has been living in San Francisco and we haven't seen each other for at least a year, though it seems much longer. Yesterday she, her little side-kick Franklin, and our friend Liz came up for a visit. My parents (who are HUGE Marcie fans) were also here. Ben missed out, he was at his moms. It really was a great visit!

Marcie (or C.C.) has become Spencer and Will's unofficial aunt. They LOVE her and absolutely loved her dog Franklin. Rocky (our dog) also loved Franklin, however Franklin found Rocky's size a bit intimidating.
Marcie has been my friend since I lived in Cedar City. When she lived closeby, we would have so much fun, going to dinner, going to movies, indulging in our favorite pass-time: retail therapy. I'm so glad your my friend, Marcie! Let's get together again soon. A year is just too long.

Nothing To Blog About

2010-05-15T22:04:00.003-06:00

Remember that song, "Let's give them something to talk about?" Great song. It's running through my head today. But with alternate lyrics; I got nothin' to blog about. There is simply nothing there.

Meet Rocky

2010-04-25T14:36:00.008-06:00

Or more specifically, Rocky Blizzard Flores (according to the kids).

A local family generously gave us one of their beautiful puppies. Rocky is part Akbash (a turkish sheepdog) and Hungarian Kuvasz, at any rate, the little fuzzball of a sheepdog is only 9 weeks old!!! I can already tell he's gonna be a "big" part of the family!

Happy Earth Day!

2010-04-23T12:24:00.004-06:00

Two things you need to know; 1. My nickname in YWs is Tedo. 2. The young women in my ward are awesome. Last night, the doorbell rang and this was on my doorstep along with two delicious doughnuts.

Never have I felt so loved. . . on earth day :)
p.s. I seriously LOVE my calling!

Springtide Sabbatical

2010-04-21T20:18:00.008-06:00

Can you guess where we went? Can you believe this was all in one day?