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Thursday, December 16, 2010

Monday, December 13, 2010

Some fun things have been happening this month. I figure I'd better blog about them while I have the free time, if you know what I mean. We built a super sweet gingerbread house! Alfonso and Ben had a marshmallow snowman building contest. Very fun.

Ben graduated from the D.A.R.E program. We are proud of him and all that he learned. Here he is pictured with a total babe. . . I mean, the keynote speaker, Heather Anderson a.k.a. Miss Utah 2007. And yes, he has this picture in his locker.

On Sunday, Carrie and Nick blessed their baby in their home. It was so special.

It was great to spend some time with family. And I just have to say, that my nephew, Riley is a total stud. Isn't he cute???

Here's Delynn with baby Natalee on her special day.

I just need to take a moment to say that Alfonso is THE MOST patient man I've ever known!

Okay, this was seriously cool. Alfonso and I had just finished our chinese food and opened up our fortunes together. We laughed so hard.

"Short stranger", eh? I think they might be on to something.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

9 Months - How I feel - Complete With Visual Aids

My ability to grip items can be summed up in one word, non-existant. I drop everything and when I muster the willpower to pick it up off the floor, I do it with the grace of a dwarf on stilts.

I have the alluring waistline of Homer Simpson.

When walking, I have the unmistakeable teetering gait of E.T. or Yoda, yet sadly with none of the superpowers.

Weight gain, swelling, and hormones have turned me into a bear. Hornery, lazy, and huge.

And to top it all off, I have accumulated the recall ability and razor sharp wit of an ostrich.

That's how I feel, no complaints, just statin' the facts. :) Yay for pregnancy!!!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Huggies and Kisses - A Bit of Insanity

At the diaper shower we had a few weeks ago, my brilliant friend Amy gave me the gift of "Huggies" and "Kisses." Great play on words, my friend.

After the shower, I carefully put the Huggies away, awaiting their lucky day to get soiled. I also put the Kisses away, to be eaten after the baby is born (in the meantime, I'm supposed to avoid sugar, I know, BOOOOOO!). Well, this morning, I buckled under the pressure. I totally caved. I've been feeling so cranky, and uncomfortable. I'm just getting over a nasty cold. The baby is obviously still in the tum, the Huggies are sadly still in pristine condish, so I had no choice but to raid the Kisses. Don't judge me. . . don't you dare judge me.

Ohhh, sweet revenge. Although I'm not sure what I'm proving to whom, I am sure that it tastes fabulous.

p.s. THANK YOU AMY!!!!

Friday, November 19, 2010

Giving Thanks - #7 For The Baby

I don't mean to complain, but this pregnancy has been kind of rough. I am definitely FEELING 8 1/2 months pregnant, what with all those wonderful consistant aches and pains, not to mention the baby's random soccer practice routines she loves to do in the middle of the night. (We are lovingly calling her our super-hero, ninja, princess, tap dancing, aerobic intructor baby. Yeah, she's a live one.) Minor complaints aside, I wouldn't trade this experience for anything. I'm so THANKFUL that she's coming. And seriously, I can deal with the lovely side-effects, its a very small price to pay for a healthy little one.

Yeah, totally worth it. :)

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Shower Time!

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Showered!!!

Last weekend, My friend Marcie, Delynn, and my mom threw a baby shower for me. It was so fun. I appreciate the people who came and all the thoughtful gifts. Thanks everyone!!!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Time To Think Pink!

After visiting the Dr. yesterday, we found that our little baby is growing healthy and strong. I'm 17 weeks along. And our due date is December 28th (it keeps moving closer with each visit). We are so humbled that Heavenly Father is sending a baby to us and that all is going well so far. We also discovered that "it" is a "she"!!!! We are so incredibly excited. I love my boys, but this is truly a dream come true for me. Hair, bows, princesses, drama, tears, stretchy tights and shiny shoes. Bring it on!!!

Saturday, July 17, 2010

What do you think?

Boy

or

Girl?

Friday, June 18, 2010

Let me put on a baker's hat.

12 weeks along! Baby growing healthy & strong! We are so happy. So hopeful. If you remember to, send up a prayer.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Stork Visit Eminent

To some, it may seem a little too soon after our marraige (Sept. 9, 2008) to try for a baby - but Ben is 9, Spencer will be 8 and Will will be 5. The powers that be say it is time for another one. After some positive at-home pregnancy tests, one missed period, and a significant increase in my need to wee, it is confirmed that I am pregnant & we couldn't be more ecstatic!

Our little one is due (tentatively) on October 27th. Will it be a boy? Or a girl? Or will Alfonso get his wish of having one of each? Will I be able to buy little pink dresses and take comfort in knowing that the estrogen level in the house in on the rise? Will I have similar cravings like Kentucky Fried Chicken (Will) or Wendy's Frosties (Spencer)? Pray tell, will I be able to attend Witches Night Out this year? Will the baby have Alfonso's wonderful dark complexion or suffer Mom's white/transparent fate. I look forward to all of the little discoveries that lie ahead, but most of all I take comfort in knowing that whoever's in there, they're on their way.

Kids Say The Darndest Things

9/8/14 After a massive pillow fight with Spence and Will, Mia fell to the floor and exclaimed, "I'm soaking tired!"

5/15/14 We were watching a Baby Einstein movie featuring a rhino puppet. Mia said, "Mom, that rhinoceros is a genius."

5/13/14 Mia just told me some disturbing news about her imaginary friend. "Squella, not like you, so her is hiding." I even offered Squella a popsicle to bribe her into liking me and she wouldn't budge.
5 minutes later:
No wait, Mia just informed me, "Her likes you now. Her gets a pop-is-cle."

5/02/14 Mia has been coming up with some unique names for her imaginary friends, Squilla, Quinley, Tortilla are just a few. Well today she was talking to her friend Celia and said,
"What's your Cat's name, Celia?
"Tiddley-Dee"
"Oh!!! GREAT name!!!"
Later, I asked her later about the cat and found out that there are TWO! One cat's name is "Tilly-Tina" and the other's name is "Tiddley-Dee."

4/21/14 Mia was shouting at me from the bathroom in a bossy way. I said, "Mia, don't talk to me like that." She said. "I YELLING at you." I needed to leave the room and she shouted again and said, "Mommy come here, right now. I gon count and you gon go in time-out!!!" Sweet swirling onion rings, I'm in for it.

4/4/14 While enjoying a chocolate chip cookie together, I asked, "Mia, why is chocolate soooooo good?" To which she naturally replied, "Cuz we gon' eat it."
Best reason ever.

1/07/14 At the store, at the top of her lungs, in attempt to tell me that she's going to "crack me up" Mia shouted, "Mom, I go a crap you up!"

12/11/13 Today at story time Miss Sally was teaching the kids about the color red. She was pointing out those with red hair. She said, "This little boy has red hair, and look, this mommy has red hair. And this mommy has red hair!" There was a pause and Mia shouted out, "I HAVE TWO MOMMIES!" All the parents looked around, Miss Sally bewildered, looked at me. Appalled I laughed and said loudly, "I have NO IDEA what she's talking about." Everyone started laughing. . . hard! For the life of me I couldn't figure out why she'd say that. So afterwards I asked Mia, and she pointed to the two mommies with red hair and said, "See? Two mommies!" Ohhhhhh, now I get it. Two mommies with red hair.

12/14/13 The dinner table was busy with multiple conversations occurring at once when Mia said, "Hey Will, this song my favorite: (in sing-song)
Hello Kitty, Hello Kitty,
I like Hello Kitty"

12/03/13 Ben was teasing Mia on the couch. When she angrily yelled, "Ben, DON'T BLOW ME! I NOT a bubble!!!"

11/13/13 Today I was crying and couldn't stop. Mia dropped what she was doing and ran up and said, "Hold me, you feel better!" I hugged her tight and put her down. A few seconds later she came up and said, "Here Mom, a have a Kleenex."

Lately, Whenever we are having a nice snuggle moment as a family, Mia will come up and say, "All To-ah-gedder."

10/13/13 I need to preface this by saying, Mia's word for "girl" is "grill." After church Mia got very upset and ran to her room. Alfonso went up to try to comfort her and said, "Don't cry, Mia." To which she responded, "But grills like to cry."

09/25/13 Mia and I were playing with pretend snakes. In their "conversation", they made a deal and so I told her, "Let's shake on it." she immediately began to violently shake the snake.

08/24/13 Once again, Pandora displayed the album cover (One World's Acoustic) of Justin Bieber on the screen. Mia looked at it again and said, "Mom, look! A doggie. Doggie wif guitar."

08/21/13 Pandora displayed an album cover of Justin Bieber on the t.v. Mia, startled a little by the music, looked up at the screen, studied for a minute and said, "Cute doggie!"

08/19/13 As we were all getting ready to go swimming, Mia was excitedly showing everyone her "swimming soup."

08/17/12 A day after I taught Will about the Star of David, Will was playing with a couple of triangle magnets. When he had overlapped them just right he held them up and said, "Look, it's Jared's star!"

08/16/12 After taking off Ben's newly acquired football gear, Will sat next to me, sighed, and said, "It's nice to have a football player in the house."

07/24/12 I was looking at my wedding ring while tucking Will in to bed. Will noticed and said, "That's a pretty fancy ring." I said, "It is. It's the most beautiful thing I've ever owned. But I love it mostly for what it stands for." Will surprised me when he responded, "You love it because it reminds you of the day you got married. Even if it was made of wood, it would be a still be a great treasure."

07/23/12 After a run to Dairy Keen, Will shared the following insight: "The most humblest flavor of ice cream in the whole entire world is vanilla." When I asked why, he said, "Because it's simple, it's plain, and it's always there. "

07/05/12 Fearing that Mia might ruin his pillow fort, Will asked, "Mom, can we put her to sleep?"

06/28/12 As we were setting the table for breakfast, Will (7)said, "I'm a simple man." I couldn't help but smile. "I'm a simple man with complex thoughts." Did I mention, he's 7???

06/25/12 While I was looking for a rubber band, Spencer handed a large one to me and proudly said, "I wear 5 rubber bands on my wrist at all times."

06/22/12 For the second time, Spencer said, "I don't believe in sarcasm." I argued that sarcasm does exsist and gave him an example. His response, "I call that oppositism."

06/03/12 While we were driving, Spencer spotted a slowly oncoming tractor and car and said, " 'Wow, tractors drive slow!' thought the lady in the green car."

06/03/12 We had watched a bunch of old footage of Beatles performing some of their hits, when Will yelled out, "Can we PLEASE stop listening to classical music?"

05/12/12 Trying to explain to our sick kids why we couldn't have friends come play, I said, "We need to get this virus out of our house." Will said, "Lets give it to someone else!"

03/03/12 Will just said, "I have a faculty butt."

03/01/12 Will told Ben that from now on he wants to be called Bethica, queen of the sea.

03/01/12 Will came inside from shoveling snow with cold hands. After explaining to me that the problem was his gloves, he asked,"Can I have an upgrade?"

11/29/11 Me: "Will, what do you want the person you marry to be like?" Will: "Hot and sexy." Room fills with shock & stifled laughter. Me: "Will. . . what does it mean to be hot?" Will: "That you just came out of the desert."

11/28/11 When it's time for oracion/prayer, Mia oftentimes will fold her arms and talk quietly while the prayer is said. At the end we say "amen." She loudly says, "BOB!"

11/26/11 Alfonso swatted at the pesky fly once again. "It's taunting me." He said. Will exclaims, "It's taunting you??" Mutters to self, "I hate taunting flies."

11/10/11 Will walked in the door and when he saw his friend Annie sitting on the couch said, "I knew this day had something special in it." "What?" Annie asked. "You! I knew you were coming over. You make today special."

11/10/11 In the car, Annie (a girl I'm tending) said, "Jesus is so lucky! He gets to be born on Christmas, huh!"

09-09-11 Alfonso and I went on a date for our anniversary and left the kids with family. After we picked up the kids, Will politely asked, "Were there a lot of people at the anniversary?"

09-08-11 At the breakfast table, I was telling the kids that tomorrow would be Alfonso and my anniversary. Will lowered his head and said, "I'm glad I don't have to see that."

09-07-11 At a restaurant, we were all joking back and forth and Will said, "You gotta be pushing my leg!"

08-20-11 At our moving sale, my 3-year-old neice, Nicole held up a shiny quarter and said, "Look, I have a quenny."

08-20-11 5 minutes later, Nicole was whining. Her Mom, D.D. said, "I'm not going to talk to you until you use a big girl voice." Nicole gave her a mean look and said, "But you just talked to me."

08-19-11 Will, sitting at the table kept singing, "Can't you see, I love my pancreas, look at me, I love my pancreas." Over and over. Thank you, Wierd Al.

08-19-11 Quite proud of himself and giggling a little, Spencer announced, "Faster than a speeding two-year-old, able to leap a towering pile of laundry, it's SUPERMOM!!!"

04-29-11 We had just finished a large meal at Chick's Cafe when Spencer leaned back in his chair and energetcally patted his stomach saying, "Now I know what Santa feels like."

04-28-11 Will was helping me pull our huge new stroller out of its box. His job was to pull the box down as I held the stroller up off the ground. It wouldn't budge. He paused and said, "Wait, should I go drink some milk, to make my muscles stronger?"

About Us

Our blended family is many years and obstacles in the making. We two were raised in separate countries, different cultures and upbringings. For each of us, God's blessed broken road weaved through marraige, the birth of a child (or two) and a painful divorce, in the end, leaving a himless her and a herless him. We met on a blind date in 2008 and haven't been able to stay away from each other since. Married for time and all eternity in the Salt Lake Temple, we and our four children are determined to BE a forever family. This blog is an account of our daily lives, our ups and downs, and our journey to become "one."

you + me = US

Our Family 2013